little nothings...

for the awsummm coffee that I make, a few friends are repaying back with a new venture very soon and here is the start...

If roaches had souls, I would have been haunted to death by now. No kidding! I don't like men. I don't like them for what they are and for what they are not. I am a bloody hypocrite. I love to travel. Rio, Egypt, Savannah, Alaska, Greece,Seychelles; they are top on my list (not necessarily in the order mentioned) I love food.period. I hate exercising.period. I would not mind spending the rest of my life eating, drinking, merry making and reading books when time permits. I once had a brief crush on my boss ( NO! i am not gonna tell who/when/where) I hate water rides. They make you wet, sticky and what not! I wanted to be a teacher,an air hostess,pilot,astronaut,choreographer,fashion designer, IAS officer,entrepreneur, chef, gardener (in the same order as mentioned) and I ended up being an engineer. I am dead scared of installing and uninstalling anti-virus on my computer :P I love buddays..specially y(h)appy Buddays!! sigh! i eagerly wait for gifts :P I am computer-illiterate. ...

1) if, while making plans to go out, the first thing you think about is hanging out at the mall 2) you empty the entire wardrobe looking for a shirt, dump all the clothes back and repeat the procedure the next(every) time you go out 3) when you have to keep digging through all those store credit cards looking for your drivers license 4) being seen in the same outfit twice is a crime and now this makes deciding what to wear for work today one of those most difficult decision you have ever taken 5) you have a wish list which grows at a rate faster than that at which items are marked off 6) you don't need 3 shots of tequila, just buying those cool shades will give you a happy high 7) when you end up spending $100.00 trying to save $15.00 using the 15 off 30 discount coupon on that 11th sweater that you want (it's not need) for winter which is 6 months from now 8) you have a chapstick, a lip gloss, a body lotion, a box of mint; one set in that black hobo bag, one in the ...

Neither have I lived in a lot of places nor have I already started going grey, but it is not beyond the comprehension of any woman (to be addressed as a girl has already started sounding annoying to me!) of any age to comprehend that women here, there, elsewhere and everywhere( yes, even if there were women on Venus) are no different. From the moment I landed here in the United States, and every new city I visit, the first thing I do is compare the women( its altogether a different thing that I end up checking their footwear and if they got a pedicure). Definitely women here in the US of A and the so called developed countries are more independent, self-respecting and self-loving and a lot more when compared to those back home. But, underneath the mask of independence and achievement are the same old layers of vulnerability, insecurity and uncertainty. Don’t mistake me to be another 379,856th feminist. It is just that I haven’t come across any house-husband or dads who ar...

This is no beauty pageant and I k'no'w we are no models, but would just love to know what can be changed to make this world a better place. "If you got a chance to change something in the world, what would it be?" lack of compassion?? tolerance?? poverty?? sham?? crime?? pretense?? corruption? greed?? disease?? suffering?? pain?? hatred?? though each new year starts with a hope of ringing out all the above and more.. each day begins with an eagerness to welcome all things good and kind.. and doesn't end without witnessing war, murder, female abuse in several form.. nevertheless, the fervent hope doesn't wither and the wish doesn't tether.. cuz tomorrow is another bright day.. "With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world!" - Max Ehrmann